Sacrament of Marriage
For couples who want to prepare for the Sacrament of Marriage,
Please contact Anne at (402) 291-1350
to schedule a Wedding date or email.
Premarital preparation is necessary.
All wedding dates must be arranged
at least six months prior to the wedding.
The Marriage Preparation Process
Step One: Contact St. Mary's, choose a wedding date, and meet with the priest who will facilitate marriage preparation and/or witness your wedding vows
Step Two: Attend a Marriage Preparation "Welcome Session" as scheduled by the Archdiocese of Omaha. This is a two hour session where couples complete the FOCCUS inventory and gives an overview of the marriage preparation process and educational programs. Contact the facilitator of the FOCCUS review after attending the Welcome Session.
Step Three: Complete the FOCCUS facilitation process with the priest or other certified FOCCUS facilitator. The purpose of the FOCCUS review is to help the individual couple discuss the issues relative to their relationship. The review of the FOCCUS usually takes about eight hour-long sessions to complete, depending on the issues that need to be discussed.
Step Four: Attend an Educational Program as scheduled by the Archdiocese of Omaha. The purpose of the Educational Program is to have have married witnesses who have applied the skills discussed in the FOCCUS instrument in a practical way. You may choose from the Catholic Engaged Encounter Weekend, the one day, large group "Marriage: a Journey for Life" session, or the six session small group "Marriage for Life" Session. At St. Mary's, we have several couples trained to lead the small group "Marriage for Life" and those preparing at St. Mary's, Bellevue have the priority for these sessions.
Other Sessions for those with particular situations include the "Remarriage Program" for those couples in which one or both of the parties have been married before and the "Convalidation Program" for those married outside the Catholic Church and are seeking Church recognition of their marriage.
Step Five: Attend the "Natural Family Planning Introductory Session" as directed by the priest in charge of your wedding preparation. This is a one time session to introduce the couple to the methods and science or Natural Family Planning.
Step Six: Plan your wedding liturgy with our wedding facilitator, Jacque Kallman, using Marriage: a Journey for Life liturgy resource. At this session, the couple will discuss and select Prayers, Scripture Readings, and appropriate Music. The procession of family members and sedding party will also be discussed. Helpful liturgy planning information is also available at www.foryourmarriage.org.
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